Sanctity of Marriage

As I sit here this eve, awaiting tomorrow - my first wedding anniversary - it's given me a few moments to reflect on what I call the "sanctity of marriage."

And no, I'm not talking about gay marriage either.

What I refer to is the importance of marriage; the significance of the sacramental, elemental component of a sacred bond between two souls. The sacrament itself creates an atmosphere for this bond, with a priest as a witness, but performed by the two people entering into union.

The importance of such a bond is easily felt between the two parties; it's influence is everlasting. While two personalities can drift apart, the souls always have that connection.

Obviously, there are certain circumstances that permit a formal disruption of the "contract" of marriage (I wouldn't dream of telling some woman to stay with an abusive husband, or a man to stay to an unfaithful wife), but what I refer to here is the eagerness to break the agreement of marriage. Too many times I see people stressing themselves, not opening up to their spouses, ever leading into more and more problems between the two personalities.

What we must always come back to realize is that there is a spirit bond, and that it cannot be broken. Our spouses should always be our vent, a loving welcome from a hard day's work, and an everlasting relief from the pains of life. Do not ever take for granted such a person, as their loving embrace should offer sanctuary for your spirit.

It is this night I await my first wedding anniversary. And though we have been a "couple" for almost four years now, I have never felt closer to her than this night, this last year, and the first time I said "I do."

I love you very much, Ashley. Now and forever.